Getting It: A Guide to Hot, Healthy Hookups and Shame-Free Sex

Sensual Wellness Spotlight

Getting It isn’t just a book about casual sex—it’s a liberating invitation to explore your desires with confidence, clarity, and joy. In a world where mixed signals and shame still cloud the conversation around hooking up, sex educator Allison Moon offers a warm, witty, and deeply empowering guide that cuts through the noise.

This is for the curious, the adventurous, the boundary-exploring sensualists who want more than just a good time—they want experiences that feel affirming, respectful, and deliciously intentional. Whether you're dipping your toes into hookup culture for the first time or refining your approach, Getting It meets you with zero judgment and a whole lot of wisdom.

Through thoughtful advice, real talk about consent, and inclusive insight for all genders and orientations, this guide helps you define what pleasure means to you. You'll learn how to navigate casual encounters with grace, communicate desires without fear, and care for yourself emotionally and physically before, during, and after the act.

Because pleasure should never feel like a mystery or a gamble—it should feel like power.

What You'll Discover

• How to approach casual sex with confidence, clarity, and emotional intelligence
• Insightful communication tips for navigating consent and setting expectations
• Etiquette for hookup culture that centers respect, safety, and pleasure
• Ways to explore nonmonogamy and create meaningful boundaries
• Strategies for recovery when things go off course—because we’re all human
• A sex-positive, inclusive guide designed for people of all identities and experience levels