Come As You Are

Sensual Wellness Spotlight

Come As You Are is a revolutionary, research-based guide that shatters long-held myths about women’s sexuality and replaces them with truth, science, and profound self-acceptance. Dr. Emily Nagoski, a celebrated sex educator and expert in the science of arousal and desire, gently untangles the complex web of factors that influence female pleasure—from stress and trust to body image and cultural messages. The result is an empowering blueprint for cultivating a sex life grounded in confidence, authenticity, and joy.

This is not another “how-to” manual—it’s an invitation to rediscover yourself. With compassion and clarity, Nagoski shows that women’s sexual responses are deeply individual and shaped by context, emotion, and environment. And when women stop comparing themselves to others and start tuning into their own bodies and needs, the result is a profound transformation—not just in the bedroom, but in how they show up in the world.

Whether you’re curious, confused, or craving deeper connection, Come As You Are will change the way you understand pleasure—for good.

What You'll Discover

• Why there’s no one-size-fits-all “normal” when it comes to women’s arousal and desire
• The science behind how context, trust, and stress impact pleasure more than technique
• Insightful strategies for overcoming shame, body image struggles, and cultural expectations
• Tools to strengthen emotional and physical intimacy through understanding your own unique wiring
• Empowering truth that pleasure begins with understanding—not performance